this is freaking hilaraious

Last night I went with Andres to the local bear night. I could make comments on the night. With Phoenix closed it was held at The Rocks, way too small for the amount of people and definitely breaking fire code laws for max capacity. But that is not what this is about.

Andres did not really want to go but we have not gone to the last few. After seeing what was going on around me, I am now more then ever grateful to have Andres in my life. I know I have made the right decision about being in a monogamous relationship. I do not mean for this to be about a discussion of whether or not gay relationships should be opened or closed. I feel that is a question for each person and/or couple to make on their own… but that they need to be honest with one another about.   Don’t agree to be in a monogamous relationship, if you have no plans to be faithful.

I think I finally saw it through Andres’s eyes last night and I became uncomfortable with what was going on around me. I am not going to become a fanatic about closed relationships, but I just know that for me what I need is a closed one, and I do not think I will be going back out to a bear bar night, for as long as I am with Andres, which I hope is the rest of my life.

I was informed of an interesting fact by Andres.  Apparently some people do not invite us over for dinner as the intimidated by cooking for me.  Part of it is my food allergies.  I am allergic to shell fish.  Part is because they say I am such a good cook they get nervous cooking for me.  The majority of what I do is follow a recipe.   Pick a good recipe and make it.  I do make  a few things that I have made for a long time w/o recipe.  Basically family  dishes that I learned at my mom's apron.  

I must confess something that I am little embarressed about.

I am addicted to Animla Crossings on the Wii, the fossil hunting, the fishing, turnips, collect fruits and breeding flowers.  The whole deal.

My Name Andy
My Town Genovia
Friendship Code  1934-4464-9467

At the urging of friends and family I bit the bullet and started a facebook account.    Which is fine for family and friends to contact me on.
But now I have people asking me from high school to "friend" me on there.  What is even stranger is that these are not people that I even hung out with in high school.  I have a good core group of friends from high school that I still see every once in awhile and we all keep in touch.   It is also strange because though facebook I am coming out to a whole new group of people.
So if anyone on here wants to add me it is Andrew Mayo in NY

They gave me a new iphone this morning.  They said my battery died.
I asked if this happens a lot..  
I was told, they make a lot of iphones.  Everyonce in awhile there is a bad battery.
They do not make the batteries so that is out of their controls.
So I need to synch my phone tonight while I am sleeping.

My 3 month old iphone will not take a charge of all a sudden yesterday.  I have turned it off and on, reset it and then restored it.  It makes the charging noise when you plug it in and the charging icon is lit but it has been charging now for over 24 hours and nothing.  The apple store opens at 8 today, not sure if any "geniuses" will be there at that time but I can at least get a reservation for after work.  Before the battery completly discharged everything else worked.
Wish me luck.

Pushing Daisies is cancelled

My family is fully encamped at my house as I alone of the few with power. But I am visiting my friend Jay in Conneticut. We are at the Christmas party at Tommy's bar celebrating Andres's birthday. Open bar and I am feeling good.

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The group of guys that I have hung out with since High school hit a new milestone this weekend.  The first of us turned 40.  We have all gone to each other's weddings, celebrated the birth of children and the passing of parents. 
But I was not invited to the party.  Pat the guy whose birthday it was, is a bit conservative.  His wife Brenda and I were just about raised together.  My grandmother is her dad's godmother.  I said to my best friend Vince it was because of my lifestyle that I was not invited.  He denied it.  I called him to ask how the party went..  He said it was not a big party.  There was one guy who Pat use to work with that was there.  The guy came across as very religious, and Vince is now agreeing with me that the reason I was not invited was most likely because I am gay.
Thought I was passed being hurt by things like this, but I guess I'm not.